I know what you're thinking. " A beautiful girl like you needs to ask men out on dates?! How is it possible?!" Well hey, thank you for thinking that. But yes I do. Pretty much every date I've ever been on and every relationship I've ever been in happened because I made the first move. And not to brag but I've been on like 6 dates. Which is a normal amount.
Things aren't like they used to be ladies. We don't have to sit around at the mercy of men waiting for them to get up the nerve to ask us out. It's 2016 and we are woke as hell. We're strong, independent, and we don't need no man to invite us out for drinks. We can invite them! Because we're strong and independent! And thirsty!
And let me guess, you're getting a little older, spending more and more time alone, and you're really starting to feel the pressure from your friends and family to take part in a meaningful relationship. I don't care if you're very fulfilled both emotionally and creatively now that you're finally pursuing your creative passions and experiencing success in your career. Your mom won't shut up about how all your friends from back home are married and having children, and if we're being honest, it's been kind of awkward showing up to weddings with your stuffed cat pillow as your plus one.
Now honestly it's pretty easy. When you meet someone you're interested in getting to know better, possibly in the context of romance, you just tell them that and ask them to do an activity with you.
But you didn't come here because you want easy, practical advice. After all, you're reading my blog. You should know by now that I don't really take anything seriously. But anyways, if you're feeling adventurous, maybe you should follow these steps? Small disclaimer, these steps have about a 20% success rate. I am absolutely not qualified to be giving this kind of advice.Read More